Reviews of Find Her

FIND HER: How to Find a Girlfriend in 5 Weeks Without Really Trying byDrew Kern   4.6 out of 5 stars   4.6 out of 524 global ratings

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• Rod31  5.0 out of 5 stars 
• Great book for those struggling in the dating world
• Reviewed in the United States on December 15, 2024  Verified Purchase
• I really have no idea why more self-help books are not written like this one. Instead of just a bullet point download of how to improve yourself in one area or another, this books takes that advice and makes it into a somewhat entertaining story. Follow two somewhat nerdy recent college grads who try and figure out this whole dating 'thing', with guidance and advice from their Yoda-like landlord John. Take the story for what it is, a means of conveying dating advice (for men really...may come across as a little sexist for others) and not a deep thought provoking novel. Well worth a read.

• Mary F Hill    4.0 out of 5 stars
•  A Unique and Entertaining Romantic Comedy!
• Reviewed in the United States on August 17, 2024 Verified Purchase
• “Find Her: How to Find a Girlfriend in Five Weeks Without Really Trying” was a super fun read for me. I am a woman and have been married for thirty years, so reading about nerdy, virgin Gen-Z guys was out of my wheelhouse. That said, I found the advice given by Wade and Will’s older apartment manager, John, entertaining. I also think Gen-Zs who’ve developed social anxiety because of the pandemic could benefit from reading this book that promotes a Bachelor Nation (numbers game) approach to finding love. My only quip is with part of the title. Will and Wade do work at finding girlfriends and they make love a priority. A quirky, engaging read! This book made me smile.

• KRLO   5.0 out of 5 stars 
• Inquisitive Minds Want to Know
• Reviewed in the United States on July 27, 2024  Verified Purchase
• I found this novel to be encouraging, entertaining and enthusiastic for each young man to reach their personal goal of finding that special someone. The story was written in a thoughtful and respective manner, considering the feelings of each young lady they encountered throughout their dating journey. An interesting analogy was applied to reach new levels playing video games to gain confidence in meeting new people and I appreciated the advice for men, and women, to the pros and cons of online dating or meeting at bars. So...if you've been "looking for love in all the wrong places," I highly recommend reading this book!

• RAW   4.0 out of 5 stars 
• A Fun and Fresh Take on Dating
• Reviewed in the United States on September 29, 2024 Verified Purchase
• FIND HER by Drew Kern is a lighthearted and funny read about two college grads navigating the world of dating with help from their quirky landlord. The unique twist of using video game strategies in real life makes it stand out. If you're looking for an easy, enjoyable read with relatable characters and plenty of laughs, this one’s worth checking out.

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• apha   5.0 out of 5 stars
•  Needed this years ago.
• Reviewed in the United States on August 25, 2024 Verified Purchase
• FIND HER" is a surprisingly entertaining and insightful read, even for someone outside its target audience. Kern's approach to dating is refreshingly respectful and practical, blending humor with genuinely useful advice. While the title might be misleading—effort is definitely required—the book offers a unique, modern perspective on finding love. A quirky, fun read that left me smiling!

• Megan Moore   5.0 out of 5 stars
•  A Fun and Quick Read
• Reviewed in the United States on July 23, 2024 Verified Purchase
• A fun and engaging book with real-world tips to finding a life partner. I enjoyed diving into the perspective of a pair of awkward, 20-something year old men navigate their way through the dating world and trying to talk to women. It was a quick read and offered an interesting perspective on modern-age men and women!

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• James A. Todd   4.0 out of 5 stars
•  Good Dating Tips
• Reviewed in the United States on September 28, 2024 Verified Purchase
• There are some good tips for how shy men can approach women to ask them for dates. At times, the conversation didn't seem to have a natural flow. Overall, I'd recommend this book to young men who are apprehensive about dating.

• D. Johnson   5.0 out of 5 stars 
• Fun read!
• Reviewed in the United States on July 29, 2024 Verified Purchase
• The dating adventures of two recent nerdy college graduates that spend a lot of time playing video games. Dating has replaced the video games thanks to the older neighbor, a fifty something man, that is teaching them the dating ropes.

• MaicyMai   4.0 out of 5 stars 
• Fun Read
• Reviewed in the United States on July 27, 2024 Verified Purchase
• FIND HER is a unique romance novel where friends learn dating secrets from their older, wiser landlord. Lots of laughs in this book. It was a really fun read.

• StrongBad     5.0 out of 5 stars 
• Very entertaining!
• Reviewed in the United States on July 23, 2024 Verified Purchase
• “Find Her” is a very entertaining story about some clueless young men who play video games for fun who meet a man who understands women better than they ever will. Through his training, they go from video gamers to… well… players.

• 📷This is an amazing book. I wish I would have read it 40 years ago. Good luck guys!  5.0 out of 5 stars 
• Find Her Reviewed in the United States on July 25, 2024 Verified Purchase
• Awesome 

• 📷Sharon Rowe 5.0 out of 5 stars
• An inside roadmap into dating for success❣️
• Reviewed in the United States on August 25, 2024
• ‘What a funny, informative, enlightening adventure I took with these two adorable clueless young men in search of mates. How to find her? Not such an easy task! With the inside skinny from an older, seasoned upstairs neighbor, the fledging daters are thrust into a whirlwind of numerous women which leads to an insightful plan, a map of patience, and thoughtfulness as to how relationships either go up in smoke or lead to a possible forever flame. I think you, Drew Kerns, should write that second book. A surprisingly sweet and satisfying ending for those two adorable guys.

• 📷MQ 5.0 out of 5 stars 
• Reviewed in the United States on July 25, 2024
• 5 Stars!

• 📷Kseniia 5.0 out of 5 stars 
• an engaging and practical guide for those looking to enter the dating world with confidence and ease
• Reviewed in the United States on July 12, 2024
• The book offers a step-by-step plan to help readers navigate the complexities of finding a romantic partner without overwhelming effort.  The author breaks down the process into manageable weekly goals, making the journey to finding a girlfriend feel achievable and less daunting. The advice is straightforward and actionable, focusing on building self-confidence, improving social skills, and creating genuine connections. Each chapter is filled with practical tips, real-life examples, and exercises designed to help readers put the advice into practice.   
• One of the strengths of this book is its emphasis on authenticity. The author encourages readers to be themselves and to approach dating with a genuine attitude rather than relying on superficial tactics. This approach not only helps in finding a girlfriend but also in forming meaningful and lasting relationships.  The tone of the book is friendly and motivational, making it an enjoyable read. The author's humor and relatable anecdotes make the journey feel less like a chore and more like an adventure.  Overall, "FIND HER" is a valuable resource for anyone looking to find a girlfriend in a realistic and stress-free manner. It provides a clear roadmap to success while promoting personal growth and authentic connections.One person found this helpful

• 📷sebastian barros 4.0 out of 5 stars
• a lighthearted romantic comedy
• Reviewed in the United States on September 16, 2024  Verified Purchase
• "Find Her" is an entertaining and lighthearted romantic comedy that cleverly mixes dating advice with the relatable struggles of two recent college grads, Will and Wade. The story's unique premise, blending video game strategy with real-life dating, provides plenty of humor and awkward moments as the characters attempt to date 10 women in 5 weeks. The novel's quirky, down-to-earth tone keeps readers engaged while offering a fun twist on the typical dating journey. It's a delightful read for anyone who enjoys a feel-good story about self-discovery and stepping outside one’s comfort zone.

• 📷Olha    5.0 out of 5 stars
• A practical guide on how to find a girlfriend for men in their 30s
• Reviewed in the United States on July 17, 2024  Verified Purchase
• Older neighbor - landlord is giving advices to his new 25-27 year old tenants on how to ask the girl out and how to build the relationship. The book does have many techniques/phrases that can be used in real life. I was a bit annoyed of constant comparison with video-games, but maybe it's just me.  I guess it can be useful for young men who have issues with social life and want tips on how to find a woman.One person found this helpful

• 📷Paul Bauer   5.0 out of 5 stars
• A fun story about gamers navigating the dating circuit
• Reviewed in the United States on September 20, 2024  Verified Purchase
• What’s refreshing here is how relatable Kern’s take on dating is. The novel doesn’t just throw around clichés; it offers genuinely helpful tips for young men (and even women) who feel stuck in their romantic pursuits. The comparisons to video gaming are spot-on, making it a unique and entertaining read that’s still grounded in real-world wisdom. Whether you’re a young guy looking to up your dating game or just someone who enjoys a quirky, feel-good story, this book offers a fun, engaging perspective on navigating the often confusing world of relationships.

• 📷Daniel King  4.0 out of 5 stars 
• The advice is simple and easy to implement
• Reviewed in the United States on July 24, 2024  Verified Purchase
• The book is practical and straightforward, making it a helpful guide for men who want to find a girlfriend without much hassle. The advice is simple and easy to implement, making it a good choice for anyone looking to improve their dating life.One person found this helpful.

• 📷Alison    5.0 out of 5 stars 
• Funny! 
• Reviewed in the United Kingdom on July 15, 2024 Verified Purchase
• I don't know if it's supposed to be so funny, but I thoroughly enjoyed the book. I love the concept and definitely think it's something teen boys will learn from and actually enjoy reading. Recommended. 

• 📷Madhulika    5.0 out of 5 stars  
• A Fun, Insightful, and Surprisingly Practical Read for Gamers and Non-Gamers Alike!  
• Reviewed in India on December 17, 2024 Verified Purchase
• Find Her is a witty and entertaining novel that blends gaming culture with real-world dating lessons. Will and Wade, two lovable gamers, team up with their landlord-turned-mentor, John, to tackle the dating world using video game strategies.  From awkward mishaps to surprising successes, the story is packed with humor, relatable moments, and practical advice on dating and building confidence. Whether you’re a pro or a novice at relationships, this book is equal parts amusing and insightful.  Perfect for anyone looking for a lighthearted read with a unique twist! 

• 📷christian matar  4.0 out of 5 stars 
• Practical
• Reviewed in the Netherlands on December 3, 2024 Verified Purchase
• good and effective strategies 

• 📷Donnelly Wilson  4.0 out of 5 stars 
• Had me laughing at every turn of the page 
• Reviewed in Australia on December 2, 2024 Verified Purchase 
• Find Her is a cross between a comedy and a how-to book for young nerdy college lads. It was an enjoyable read that seemed to turn its own pages and left me with a feel-good smile on my face. Drew Hern offers great insight into modern dating, I 100% recommend this book. 

• 📷Gian   4.0 out of 5 stars 
• A Romantic and Funny Comedy Reviewed in Italy on December 15, 2024  Verified Purchase
• Find Her is a lighthearted and entertaining romantic comedy that is both funny and relatable, as the characters struggle, stumble, and sometimes succeed in their quest to date 10 women in just 5 weeks. This novel provides valuable dating tips, especially for shy or hesitant men, while also showcasing the awkward yet endearing journey of self-discovery and stepping out of one’s comfort zone. With a charming, down-to-earth tone, this feel-good read is perfect for anyone looking for a light, relatable story about love, friendship, and the challenges of modern dating.